I enjoy meals with friends, but I have no desire to have meals with my family. This has nothing to do with a lack of time (we're all home every evening from about 4) nor a desire to eat TV dinners on our laps (we cook almost entirely from scratch) but simply because sitting down for an hour with certain people can be excruciating. There's a big difference between you having a meal with your husband and your friends, people you've chosen to be with, and saying everyone ought to eat meals with their family.