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. Done2€™t make decisions on the basis what your frnieds says. If you love her and she loves you back, you can work this out together. I know you worry about age, what will people say and lot more, but remember in every relationship there is always hindrance for it to become successful.I never been in a relationship or in love before, so I done2€™t know if I have the right to say this and give you advice about your problem, but for me I always believe, e2€œLove conquers alle2€9d. If your love for her is strong and genuine, why not pursue her? Who knows, she maybe having the same problem as you do? My advice is ask her to hang-out during her free time, take things one step at a time, done2€™t rush and just enjoy things the way it is, let things grow whatever you two have at the moment, get to know each other first, then see where it goes.No one knows what will happen in the future, I too whenever I think about future, it scare the hell out of me. Even though I have already plans and know what I want, I still had fears. To be honest with myself, I wanted to achieve so many things that it seems that I cane2€™t fit all of them in this lifetime. I am afraid of getting old and still not be able to do some of the things that I want. I am afraid that I will become an entirely different person: that I will become what I most feared. So done2€™t feel youe2€™re alone, I guess a lot of us have that. To experience fears, hope, love, and all kinds of feeling is what makes us a person and a human being, so ite2€™s all just natural. What is important is the decision we make in our lives. I remember what my best friend says about her views about life, e2€œLife is so complicated. It is the different events in our lives wherein we get entangled by different situations and different persons that we become confused and everything becomes chaos. But then, sometimes, we realize that life is just simple. What makes it so complex is the choices laid out in front of us and the decisions we make form those choices.e2€9dIn my own (general) point of view, for me, future is not something we wait to happen and come in our life but rather it is the thing we make to happen in our life. The problem is a lot of us wee2€™re unsure about the things we want to happen in our life, (not including the person we want in our lives). In our time we are unconsciously dictated by society and others on how we must live our lives but in the end it is still our choice. My advice is know and determined your wants, dreams, and all the things important to you at the moment, then all of your fears, after that weight them all. This will help you clear your mind before making any decision. I say this because for me, knowing and determining onee2€™s fears is a step of acknowledging them and seeing it as a challenge. For me, our fears is sometimes the hindrance and a blocking sight over our future (the thing we want and dream), so by overcoming them, we will have that clearer view.To make it short, just be true to yourself in everything and appreciate what you have, and youe2€™ll be fine. Sorry for ranting and this so long, I just say whate2€™s comes in my mind. I hope I was of helped.
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(VISITOR) AUTHOR'S NAME
Bilel
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19 december 2014, 09:01:18
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