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Please give me some advice ..am I being siflesh to his feelings, has anyone gone through this? LONG STORY?I really need some advice. I'm at my breaking point and I don't know if I'm in the wrong or is my fiance. The thing is, i'm a stay at home mom of two (ages 1 2) and i'm expecting my third and last child. The problem i'm having is that i'm trying to juggle online college, the kids, the house, and being pregnant! IT IS HARD! The father sometimes helps out with the kids when he's off but has been slacking lately. He works so he pays for most things even though sometimes he's too cheap for the things we may need and I come out of pocket from the little money I try to save up . He buys me gifts sometimes but, I'm pretty much trapped in the house and that's how he likes it. He's very clingy so I have no friends and don't go anywhere. He does a lot of things without consulting in me and, I guess it's not my job to say anything since I don't work. I know he loves me (atleast i think he does) but, I feel really neglected. Almost to the point where I wish I had another guy to talk to, but, who would want someone with three young kids right? lol. Anyway, recently he's decided to join LT. F. Center, you know the type that's almost like a country club with the women that wear the two piece skimpy outfits. He also mentioned how they have co-ed showers so of course he comes home freshly showered, I'm sure he had to go try that out. He works 2nd shift so he works from 12am to 9pm. Basically that's the whole day! I'm responsible for all the house work and the kids, morning to night. He could have worked an earlier shift but, this is the one he chose. On top of it instead of working out earlier in the day, before work, he goes after work and stays till like, 12 or 1am. I feel like a single mom! I'm pregnant so I have no choice but, to stay in the house, I can't do too much lifting and moving since this is my third pregnancy, or I start contracting, clearly I would like to go to the gym too, I've always stayed in shape and I atleast should walk while i'm pregnant to keep everything tight. He tells me we can go as a family on the weekeneds. When do I get free time? I told him i'd rather hang with my old girlfriends who wonder when we'll see each other again or something to be by myself and he got upset about it. He played the guilt card to make me feel bad like, I don't want to be around him and the kids. What should I do? I would like to work or actually go to school without it being online but, he doesn't want me to so he makes sure I don't have time to. I don't need any sarcasm, this is a cry for help! What should I do? We are both neglecting each other because, I'm usually not in a good mood after being at home All day and night, and doing everything! So when he comes in i'm usually near sleep and he's on the computer or video game. I want to know will I have to worry about him being with a lot of women between the hours of 9:30p and 1am?It's not an actual country club, it's lifetime fitness center
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(VISITOR) AUTHOR'S NAME
Sladjana
MESSAGE TIMESTAMP
16 december 2014, 15:45:47
AUTHOR'S IP LOGGED
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